How to REALLY heal the world!

March 08, 2022
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Heal the World

How to TRULY heal the world!

And yourself!

Human Thinking Is Limited

For thousands of years, humans have been using the exact same strategy to resolve conflicts. Conflicts in the outer world as well as those you experience in your inner world.

A divided mind tries to solve conflicts by dividing wholeness.

A healed mind tries to solve conflicts by healing the parts.

This is so obvious and I am having a hard time trying to comprehend why most people can’t see what is right in front of their noses.

Two Kinds of Healing

1. Unconscious. Two parts try to outbalance each other. Eternal parttaking. Splitting. Because when you take part for one of the sides the balance tilts.

2. Conscious. Unity. The two divided parts are brought together in healing and Unity. Healing. If you don’t take part you wont influence the balance in any negative way.

Balance in Nature
Time heals all wounds

It is said that time heals all wounds. But that’s a lie. Time doesn’t heal. Time just cover the trauma with layers after layers and eventually we lose that part of our selves. This is not healing. This is loss.

World-Class Healing

Our minds are divided. We are programmed to divide things. It is only when you truly happen to heal your own heart that you know what true healing is.

If your left arm hurts you don’t cut it off – right? If your left foot hurts you don’t cut it off – right?

But when the world hurts in a war you take part. Some take part for one country. Others take part for another. This is NOT healing. This is DIVIDING! Which only escalates the conflict!


We have done this since the beginning of mankind and the world is STILL divided.

If you wanna heal the world, your heart and your mind you HAVE to adopt another strategy. Something that works long term. Something that goes against what nearly every human being believe.



World Class Decision Making

For the divided mind it is fast and easy to make a decision. Simply because half the facts are not considered to be existing.

The divided mind doesn’t care about the opponent’s view. The only thing that counts is MY view.

The healed mind has a genuine interest in listening to other angles. This of course takes more time, but it ensures a much higher degree of success because the decision is the correct decision for a lot more people.

Fast decisions are short-sighted.

How to make the best decission

Evolution has four steps of consciousness for us.

  1. The divided mind (and heart).
  2. The healed mind (and heart).
  3. The collective mind.
  4. The unified mind.


  1. 95% of humans are still at the first stage.
  2. 4% have to some degree got an understanding of what the healed mind really is.
  3. 1%% of humans have a genuine experience with the collective mind.
  4. 1 out of a million knows the unified mind.


The divided mind is always at war. On a deep psychological level, we are at war with ourselves because our minds are divided in Ego and Shadow (consciousness and unconsciousness).

But everything that is unconscious is projected onto someone. This is basically the only way the universe can show us ourselves in order for us to get to know our unconsciousness and grow into healing! Unfortunately, we mistake our perception and trick ourselves to believe that our own evil is the other persons in the room!

We can support this process and heal a lot faster. We can avoid a lot of diseases as many diseases are grown in our Shadow. By Healing ourselves we also cure ourselves! Gradually over time.

Below you can download a very efficient healing practice. But only do it if you are serious about yourself. Only do it if you are ready to take 100% responsibility for yourself and truly stop blaming others.

You will experience more peace in your mind and this will affect the world we live in!



Mindfulness Introduction

The most important thing mindfulness can do for you is to wake you up! This means, being more and more aware. Aware of what is causing stress and unbalances. Stress is one of the greatest killers and it is sneaky. You are getting busier over time, more and more stressed without realizing that something is wrong and suddenly one day… Bam!

The body says NO! And you get paralyzed. You can’t do a thing and can’t understand your situation and you can’t get back to ‘normal’. Maybe you ruined some friendships or even your marriage on your way and you forgot to be present when your kids or your friends wanted to talk.

Mindfulness Training can help you find out what is going on in your inner life before things get out of hand. Mindfulness is the tool that makes you aware of what is going on in your mind, and a side effect of knowing your own mind is it becomes easier to understand other people.

When you know of the thoughts speeding through your brain and the emotions rushing through your body, you are in control.

If you are riding on your thoughts through your mind, from one thought to another, you are not in control. Your thoughts are! It is just like traffic on a highway. You are driving 100 mph. like everyone else. You are late.


Download Mindfulness Introduction here!


Advanced Mindfulness

In this book, you will learn a very special kind of exercise that will set your relations free, heal you and help healing the world. Your friends as well as your enemies will be set free. And You will!

This exercise can transform your enemies into friends and can transform a lot of negativities into freedom.

We focus on healing your heart as it is much easier to live from love than from hate and negativity.

We use our entire life dividing ourselves. It is about time we start healing. By healing yourself you heal the world. You take responsibility for what is yours.

Healing your heart is healing your life. It is not at all dangerous or difficult. But most people are not ready to face themselves and do what is necessary to create a better life. Many people still play the blame game, believing blaming others will make them happy.

Are you ready to let go of the past?


Download Advanced Mindfulness here!

Heal The World

Heal Yourself

So you think you are doing great things when supporting Ukraine and condemning Russia? Do you think you are healing the world by taking sides and giving your support to Ukraine and your hate to Russia?

Most people are one-sided. Remember all the wars the US started? Did you condemn them? The US has started 50-200 wars depending on your definition of war and this is OK? A greater perspective shows us how narrow-minded and blind we are.

History tells us humans have a tendency to stand by the victims and condemn the perps. We have done this for millenniums. And we still have wars. In fact more than ever and bigger than ever.

We sincerely believe that taking part and speaking up for the victims and condemning the aggressors will heal the situation.

Do you really believe you are healing anything by dividing???

YES – dividing!

We aren’t healing anything. We are antagonizing even more. We are escalating the conflict by taking sides. We are polarizing. We are DIVIDING.

That is the opposite of healing – right?

Unfortunately, that is most people’s fundamental way of viewing the world. Dividing. This habit comes from our Reptile brain and we used this technique a long time ago when we were living in the savannah. We needed it back then in order to survive. We needed to be able to spot who is a friend and who is a foe fast in order to survive.

This is how our old brains work. This method saved our lives over and over again in the past. But the method is outdated and can’t be used for anything else than our personal survival! And our survival – yours and mine as spectators of the conflict are not in any danger here!

And what’s even worse – We wanna punish the perceived perpetrator! As our personal quest for revenge would heal anything! Trust me! That makes things even worse!

What is REAL Healing?

We need a new strategy. A strategy that is based on reality rather than unconsciousness.

If we want Peace we have to MAKE peace. If we create more war we only get… More war! Because we only focus on one side of the conflict. If we seriously want to heal the world we need to stop dividing! We need HEALING instead. TRUE Healing!

And how do we do that?

Well, let’s look at evolution and personal growth first.

Three tiers of consciousness.

The first tier of consciousness is the divided stage. This is where most people are. This means you don’t see yourself as a whole being. There are a lot of things about yourself you haven’t recognized yet. We are divided into Ego and Shadow. What we think we are and what we think we are not. If you are blaming others – even politicians, you are in this group. This stage of consciousness relates to our three brains. They are all divided and work by antagonizing, labelling, taking part, rejecting etc.

The second tier is the healed stage. Less than 5% of mankind is at this stage. But fear not. The number is growing and 100 years ago this was very close to zero! So we are living in times of hope!

If you are at this stage you take 100% responsibility for your needs and your emotions. You don’t take part because you know the damage it does to yourself as well as other people. You don’t blame people. You take responsibility and act! You are able to say clearly Yes to things you want and No to things you don’t want. You don’t care what other people think about you. You know it is more important what you think about YOU! This stage relates to our heart and our Frontal Lobes.

The third tier is the One Mind stage. It is possible to count people who are at this stage. They are very few. But you will know when you meet them and connect. This tier is not relevant to the scope of this article.

Evolution has come to a point where a lot of people are becoming ready to transition from tier one to tier two. As long as we are unconscious of it, it will take a lot of time. But if we deeply know what we are doing we can do it faster. Are you willing to transition into this new stage or are old habits and fear holding you back? If it is you can use it to decide which stage you are on. If you take action full-hearted no matter the price you are at tier 2. If you deny you are at tier one. And that is where you contribute to the problem – not the solution. Just take a look at the condition of the world right now.


True Healing

We need to STOP taking sides and look at the situation from a higher perspective. Both sides have reasons for doing what they do and we need to DEEPLY understand BOTH sides. No matter if we like it or not! Our egoic or emotional preference is irrelevant in the big picture.

You can’t heal the world. But you can heal yourself. And by healing yourself you actually contribute to the healing of the World!

If we want to Heal instead of Divide we need to stop taking part. We need to recognize that whatever created the situation doesn’t matter! It is always a series of events leading to conflict. An escalation. It is NOT suddenly out of nowhere Russia invades Ukraine. There is a long series of events that built up to the invasion. It doesn’t matter who started it. What really matters is that you and I HEAL it!

If you really want to heal the divided parts of this conflict and if you at the same time really want to heal the two sides of you that are at war, you can do this exercise:

  1. Start by contacting your heart or remember a situation where you were in contact with Love and Peace.
  2. Then imagine you hold BOTH SIDES of the conflict in your mind. Equally. If you feel any resistance hold that in your mind too. Don’t reject ANYTHING.
  3. When you hold both sides of the conflict in your mind focus again on your Heart.
  4. Send Love and Healing to BOTH parts of the conflict. This way you perform World-Class Healing and NOT division. You heal yourself!

It is a small step for man, but a giant leap for mankind!


By healing yourself you heal the world.

Download Advanced Mindfulness here!


By David Holywood

Author of 10 books for men in relationships and 2 huge novels. Web designer and SEO expert since 1999. Hard Core user of Google Ads, Google Business Profile, AdSense, Analytics & Search Console. Expert in Speed & Load Optimization. Musician. Composer & Martial Artist. Psycho Therapist.

Running a few other blogs: which is a book store and has a lot of resources for men in tough relationships. which is an AdSense site. which is a web agency and some kind of a Danish version of

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  1. Aondra Willinks

    Love it!

  2. Alina Maxine

    That is definitely a new way of looking at healing! But I get it! Taking part is not healing. It is dividing!

    Thanks a lot for a great article!

  3. Rachel

    Beautiful insight <3

  4. John

    The world is crazy for sure. Don’t think human species are worth saving.

  5. Liam

    Not sure if healing works


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